Wednesday, May 20, 2009


Boys: Do you feel like your manhood is on the line every time you're around a girl?




Girls: Do you feel like your womanhood is on the line every time you're around a boy?

22 comments:

  1. yes i do feel like that a little bit.i do feel different but not a whole lot different then when i am around my friends -doug

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  2. i dont reall know which way to go becuse i act manly around my friends but around girls i ease up a bit to there expcetions so i change around different genders so i live up to boths expections-jimmy

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  3. Wow Jimmy, that is very interesting. I'm glad you can admit that you act different around the ladies.

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  4. I just have to watch what I say, I mean, i do act different ecpically when I have a crush on them. LIke, if i like them, I act totally different, like when your little and your grand parents come over and your supposed to be on your best behavior. I guess I just get nervous. Then again, girls do have coodies and thats the way life is
    ---Trent ( I read about it in a book ) Knight

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  5. I think its all depends what kind of friend the opposite gender is. Like if i have a crush on a guy i think im more ditzy around him so id say sometimes thats on the line. but if i just have a friend thats a guy im just myself. I pretty much act the same around everyone. but i feel like i have to watch somethings that i say around boys unlike some girls. like if you say something gross infront of a guy and your a girl you feel like "omg hopefully he doesnt think differntly of me" but if i say something totally unexpected infront of my friends that are girls we can just joke around about it. with the guys though i think they feel very insecure around girls. and i dont see why. i think girls feel more insecure around the boys then they really expect.

    -tina.

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  6. I actually talk about this kind of stuff alot. People obviously act differntly around other people because other people are different people. Sometimes I'll act alot more ippropiate around girls then guy, but it all depends who I care what they think about me. Just because we act differently around different people doens't alwayss mean were two faced, it's just a matter of adapting to your enviorment. No, I don't always feel like my manhood is on the line, but I do sometimes. Everything in life depends on something (who's around, where you are, what are the consquences If I act like this now or act like this later)-G.P.

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  7. i dont think i act too much differently. the only thing i can really think of is that im not much of a joker or something. i leave that up for guys to make me laugh i guess. but i do notice guys acting differently. like when they tell me they like someone or like me, they start to act differently to me or that person. like they are shy or something. it kinda seems like they are nervous and dont know how to act so they just kinda stay quite. but idk? its just an observation i guess. but yeahh.


    hollyyy.

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  8. When I'm around people I dont really know I'm different because I'm out of my comfort zone. I think everyone would say that. When I'm around guys it depends on who they are. You have guys that are your friends and guys that you like and stuff. You act differnt when your around differnt people. So I can say that I'm different when I'm around guys depending in who they are.
    -Cammy

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  9. no, i act the same all around guys and girls. i don't have a problem and don't see why everyone acts like, cause thier a diff gender you have to act like someone else. everyone has something they don't like about themselves, so who cares? stop trying to hide whatever the problem is, cause the person you are around (diff gender) most likely has the same insicurities.
    -marci d

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  10. Yes, I do feel like my manhood is on the line. If your around a really pretty girl thats when it could get dangerous. Guys will look you down and they will think to themselfs why is that girl going out with him. Thats when pride comes into play. You wanna show off in front of your girl so you look good infront of that butt head. You want that guy thinking twice about what he said to himself before. When it comes to manhood you put it out there when your with a girl. When guys look at you it like walking through the lions den. So you always have to be ready to back it up with your actions.


    Woj

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  11. i do think sometimes it is true.When some of the guys try to ack all strong and cool and you really think its a joke. and most of every one does that when they dont even relise it. when you are around a prety girl you always dont no what they will say when your not there or what they will think of you. Are manhood is always on the line.

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  12. thats mine christopher walsh

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  13. im shy around some girls. depends i guess. and the others i act goofy around.-jefe-not much of a blog-jefe again

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  14. i think that wherever you go your manhood is always on the line but i think, i dont know i think, that i act alot different around my freinds than around girls. because with my freinds i can kinda be myself because when you start to be to much or yourself your freinds start to call you a homo or Fuity mgaygay. When im around my freinds i feel that have to act like im the toughest one and i an prove my self if anyone trys to push me around. And with girls i think i kinda act like a little bit of a tough guy and a show off becuase i want them t respect me and think im cool at the same time. but when it gets down to the real stuff i just want people to know who i am, and not the show off or whatever people think of me. I generally dont care what people say about me , but what im saying is that you sont always have to like me but you have to respect me as human being


    =-=-=-=-=-=-StEvE-O

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  15. I definately feel like I am different around guys. When I am with my friends I don't have to worry about impressing someone or trying to make sure I make a good impression because they know who I am and would be able to tell when I was trying to impress them. When I'm around guys though...forget it. You see a totally different side of me then usual. I get all self conscience and all conservative. You would see me staring at the floor or the walls so that they don't think I'm staring at them so they don't think I'm weird (which they probably do anyway) but the point is that yeah I try to impress them... when I'm not being all conservative and looking away and being my own stupidly shy self. I just cant get it through my head though that they are just guys. You know? I really need to start gaining more self-confidence and having a better self -esteem or I think I will be like this forever. -Taylor

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  16. I feel much different around girls just because I always think we share totally different intrests and it an sometimes make me feel different and I just can't talk openly normally. I don't know why.
    Alex A

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  17. I don't act any different. I be myself and if I'm around guys why should I act different? Your not showing your true self if you act different. If you act yourself people get to know you better anf if they don't like you being yourself then screw them! It's there loss. They wouldn't make a good friend anyway. So no, I don't act different and I don't feel like my womanhood is on the line.
    ~alex chekouras~
    <3 checkers <3

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  18. for this it depends beceause if u are a round a girl that you are very close to you can act normal beceause you know that they wont juge you. but if you are a round a girl that you just ment and would like to keeping talking to her at first you need to act like the perfect little gentalmen but once you brake that tention and cross the line you are good as gold and can act normal.- TJ

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  19. The truth is that we can never be ourselves around the opposite sex until meet the one person that enjoys our little quirks...I think that is called "love" or something like that:)

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  20. Well i try to be myself as much as possible, because i don't want people to get the idea that i'm fake and have to impress them to mean something to them. I want a guy to be able to accept everything that i am weather that's weird, silly, shy or whatever. When i'm around guys I want them to be able to understand the type of girl that i am and thats so important to me. - katelyn

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  21. I barely ever feel like my womanhood is on the line every time I’m around a guy because 99% percent of my friends are guys except Dominique. I just don’t get along with girls at all because most of them are way to girly and emotional and their whole lives are based on drama and that irritates the crap out of me. So for the most part I’m extremely comfortable around guys. But when I’m with a bunch of guys and there’s like maybe one or two other girls there, I feel like the other girls think I’m a complete slut because all I do is hang out with guys. But I’m like the farthest thing from a slut. (Well, at least that’s what I think and please correct me if I’m wrong.) So yeah anyway, for the most part I act like myself around guys unless I like them. If I like a guy, I’m really self conscious about almost everything. I can’t act like myself around them because I’m so afraid of what they’ll think about me, I can’t eat in front of them, and I’m constantly worrying about my figure because if one thing is wrong I feel like I’m the ugliest person alive. I absolutely hate that about myself but I have no idea how to get over those ridiculous fears.

    -Critchfield

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  22. I always use to feel like my manhood was always on the line, until i hit around end of 7th grade to 8th and now i dont think my manhood is on the line ever. im pretty comfortable around girls and its weird becuase when im around my girlfriend i feel so comfortable that i can act like myself around her like i would with my family members and truat me i can get really crazy and i dont care that she thinks im werid because i am pretty werid im not gonna lie hahaha. The only thing i worry about is my acne and i know everyone gets it but i feel like everyone is just staring at it and i just want to shove my head in a book and never take it out or put a paper bag over my head cuz it looks so ugly. I dont think a lot of guys think that but im not really like all guys because im pretty senseitive and i wish i wasnt all that sometimes because i think a lot of girls dont think that its that hot haha but really im not kidding they think that the guy is a baby or something like that idk. Well i like who i am and i'll never change i'll always be the crazy and outta control matt pedano.

    Pediddy!

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